Posted 11 hours ago

traumatherapist:

How to make your very own I Don’t Suck file:

It can be general or specific—A lot of my clients make general files with notes from loved ones or former students/clients/bosses of theirs or other supports. Or magazine clippings that remind them of goals or qualities they have. I am currently making one that is therapy related as a way to transition from my most recent job and prepare for my move abroad. It has notes from clients, supervisees and evaluations.

What you need: It can be as low maintenance as a file folder stuffed with notes or as high maintenance as a well-crafted scrapbook. What’s important is that you have a place to go when you need a pick-me-up.

You can gather things to build it—don’t have what you’re looking for? Start gathering!

  • If you have a friend or family member you trust to be supportive of you, see if they’d be willing to write you a note about what they like about you.
  • Next time you’re looking at a magazine or reading a blog and see something that resonates with you—save it for your file. Truth resonates, and you can’t recognize something that you don’t have, so if there is something you read or see that you admire and relate to, there’s something of you that’s in it.
  • Write yourself some affirmations when you’re feeling good—make your own or use song lyrics or quotes.

-latest After Trauma post

Posted 12 hours ago

Episode 13: Unafraid of the Dark, Cosmos: A SpaceTime Odyssey

(Source: child-of-thecosmos)

Posted 12 hours ago
tsk tsk tsk all this internalized homophobia, bring out the tissues…
me reading gay fanfiction all night (via evil-wears-a-bow)
Posted 12 hours ago

marvels-fallen-angel:

seeing a fanfic that i havent read 

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Posted 12 hours ago

oni9doodles:

Happy Spirk day <3

Posted 12 hours ago

In honor of k/s day reblog if you ship spirk

Posted 12 hours ago

How can someone not ship Spirk?

shakeitso:

Just

Look

At

Them

Posted 13 hours ago

bonbonli:

Old and new generation 

Posted 13 hours ago

white people bios be like:

heliolisk:

kobetyrant:

Mackenzie. 15. Montana. Indie music. Welcome to a special part of my mind. I’m white but I identify as Spanish/Walgreens gift card. Sherlock. I follow back 🌸flower child🌸

i identify as a walgreens gift card
Posted 13 hours ago

deanismypatronass:

Ghostfacers - swearing

Aka the only episode that really allows us to appreciate how much of a pottymouth Dean is

Posted 13 hours ago

theegyptgame:

ok but ask yourself this about your otp

  • which one hogs the blanket
  • which one cuts the other’s hair
  • which one makes coffee for the other every morning
  • which one picks up the pizza
  • which one likes their music on full volume
  • which one complains about the crumbs on the bed
  • which one is ticklish
  • which one sings and which one plays the music
  • which one proposes
Posted 13 hours ago

theflamingonator:

queerboiswag:

cakeandrevolution:

I want to see a reality tv show where straight dudes have to read the shitty messages they send to women to their mothers.

i would die laughing

id never stop watching that

Posted 13 hours ago

cherenigans:

do you think whoever was designing the default netflix avatar made a mistake somewhere but just sat there laughing at the result for so long that the whole design team decided to keep it

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Posted 13 hours ago
"Tony Stark, what are you doing out here all by yourself?" -Tony in Guardians of the Galaxy

(Source: guardiansofthegalaxys)

Posted 13 hours ago

vonmunsterr:

pornosophical:

jzanity1010:

dbvictoria:

More Disney Parks facts here

TREASURED GUEST

But how could you leave out this

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that last one is the most important one wow